What Happens in a Private Session

Each session begins by slowing down and arriving together. We take time to talk, set intentions, and create a sacred space — a container where anything that wants to arise is welcome. You're invited to name what you're bringing, and also to soften into the mystery. Often, Spirit knows what’s truly needed more than our conscious minds do.

If you work with specific energies or guides, you’re welcome to call them in. Or we can simply sit together in presence.

Depending on what’s alive in the moment, we might begin with some light emotional activation — such as breath, sound, or shaking — to loosen tension and invite the body to open. This can be especially helpful if there's nervousness or stagnation. Or we might move straight into the massage — it’s always intuitive.

The bodywork takes place on a warm, padded surface, with blankets and heat for comfort. To begin, the focus is on trust — our bodies meeting gently, sensing each other’s energy, and building connection. This is a space of deep listening: to your body, your boundaries, your breath.

From there, the session unfolds organically. I may include practices such as de-armouring — gentle pressure on points where energy is stuck — inviting breath and sound to support its release. But this is only offered if it feels safe and aligned.

We often start with the back of the body. Full-body undressing is welcome but never required. If there’s emotion or discomfort around being seen, we slow down and honour that. Even the act of disrobing can be part of the healing journey — a moment to meet yourself tenderly.

The session may include the front of the body, and with full consent, the breasts or Yoni — only if it feels like a true “yes” in your body. If not, that’s perfectly okay. There is no goal or expectation.

This work is not about performance or pleasing. It’s about presence. About bringing loving awareness to the parts of you that have not yet known themselves as lovable. Especially when we include erotic energy, so much can arise — shame, memory, longing, numbness, desire. All of it is welcome.

There may be moments of movement, stillness, tears, laughter — even spontaneous sounds or unusual impulses from the body. We trust that. The body is wise. It remembers. And it knows what it needs to release, reclaim, or reveal.

Near the end of the session, you’ll be covered and left to rest in stillness for 10–15 minutes. I won’t touch you or “do” anything — I’ll simply be present while you integrate, and feel your own energy without interference.

We’ll close gently, with minimal talking, to keep you connected to your body. If there’s something you feel called to share, especially something you want to claim or anchor, there’s space for that. But I recommend leaving some quiet time afterwards to allow the session to settle.

We’ll reconnect the next day to check in, share any integration insights, or continue the thread if further work wants to emerge.

Working with the Yoni

Internal yoni massage is a sacred offering I hold with great care, and it is never part of a first session. I believe that it takes time for our bodies to build the trust, safety, and attunement needed for this kind of deep and intimate work.

If you’re interested in Yoni massage, we begin by gently getting to know each other — through presence, bodywork, breath, and emotional attunement — over a series of sessions. When your body feels ready, we can explore this practice with full consent and spaciousness.

Yoni massage, when it happens, is not about pleasure in the conventional sense — though pleasure is welcome. It’s a process of listening, of meeting the Yoni with reverence, curiosity, and love. She might carry stories, numbness, tension, grief, longing, or simply a deep desire to be seen and felt.

Together, we create a space where she is honoured exactly as she is — at her own pace, on her own terms.

What I can offer:

• Shamanic Sexual Healing Journey

• Self love and worthiness coaching (no touch)

• Boundaries, desires and consent coaching (clothes on)

• Emotional release coaching (no touch)

• Full body de-armouring (pressure point + emotional release)

• Full body + external intimate massage.

• Sacred spot/yoni massage/mapping/de-armouring*

• Anal massage/de-armouring*

* It normally takes more than one session for me to offer internal massage work, depending on your experience. I believe bodies need time to get to know and trust and truly open to someone’s touch.

Each session is tailored to you, where you are on your journey, and your specific needs. You will always be at choice to change the direction or depth of the session. A session lasts 2 hours, and cost between £180 and £280.

I can offer packages for multiple sessions or longer term support.

If you are financially challenged I sometimes offer discounted or free sessions (no more than one applicant per month). Contact me to apply.